Its a couple of years ago, The moment when I stepped onto the plane, not yet realizing I was leaving everything I loved in the Netherlands behind for good.

Now, I’ve been living and working in the heart of the United States: the Midwest.

My adventure began with a leap of faith—a unique opportunity to build a new life on the other side of the ocean. In this blog, I share my experiences, challenges, and discoveries in this fascinating region.

Upon arrival, I was immediately struck by the warmth of the people here. The Midwest is known for its hospitality, and I’ve experienced that firsthand. Whether it’s a chat with the neighbors or the helpfulness of colleagues, I quickly felt welcome.

Living and working in the Midwest is quite different from what I was used to in the Netherlands. The vast landscapes, seasonal activities, and strong sense of community are just a few aspects that color my daily life. The work culture here is direct and practical but also friendly and supportive—a mix of hard work and enjoying life.

The cultural differences are also striking. While the Dutch are known for their directness, Americans tend to be more polite and often avoid confrontation. This sometimes leads to misunderstandings but also offers valuable learning moments. I enjoy discovering local traditions like Thanksgiving and the Fourth of July and appreciate the diversity of perspectives I encounter daily.

Through my blog, I hope to give you a glimpse into my life here in the Midwest and maybe even inspire others to push their boundaries too. I look forward to sharing my stories, tips, and adventures with you. Step into my world and discover the charm of America through my eyes. Welcome, and happy reading!

In this blog, I celebrate 25 years as a mother of my 5 children. I honor them here. 

I share my most beautiful memories, fun anecdotes, and the creative moments we’ve enjoyed together. These years have been filled with laughter, love, and unforgettable experiences that shaped both me and my children.

But I also reflect on the more difficult times, such as the Toeslagenaffaire, which started for me in 2005. As a single mother, I had to fight for years against institutions and the government. It was a long and exhausting battle, one that affected not only me but also my family deeply.

This blog is not just about the joys of motherhood but also the challenges I’ve faced along the way. Through it all, I remain grateful for the love and strength my children have brought into my life.

Welcome to my blog about raising school-aged children using the principles of Rudolf Steiner and anthroposophy. Here, I share how I apply these philosophies at home with young children, during the postpartum period, and within Waldorf education.

I am passionate about the anthroposophical approach, making my own Waldorf dolls, celebrating seasonal festivals, and integrating these values into our daily life.

Take a look and be inspired by my experiences, tips, and creative ideas for incorporating anthroposophy into your family life.

For years, I researched and served as a lice mom, helping dozens of families tackle the problem of head lice. These experiences inspired me to write this book, packed with valuable tips and information on this taboo topic.

In this blog, I share my knowledge and practical solutions for families and schools, so everyone can effectively eliminate head lice. Join me and discover the methods that are often overlooked!

I am always engaged in creative activities: crafting, painting, drawing, and tattooing. I also have a great passion for DIY projects around my home. Here, I share the many projects I’ve created, from unique interior designs to handy DIY solutions.

I take pride in my two pickup trucks, which I’ve transformed into colorful, cool vehicles. My creativity doesn’t stop at my home; I have a huge garden where I spend hours every day. In this space, I share my experiences with vegetable gardening and inspiring gardening projects.

Dive into my world of DIY and gardening, and let my creative adventures and practical tips inspire you!

Here, I share my personal experiences from my six pregnancies and the results of my eight-year research on Lotus Birth.

Step into a world where motherhood is celebrated, where birth is embraced as a sacred act, and where the dream of a painless delivery is within reach.

In my blog, I share not only my own experiences and insights but also the findings from my in-depth research on Lotus Birth. Discover with me the enchanting world of Lotus Birth and be surprised by the magic behind this unique method.

Throughout my journey, I have gathered valuable tips and tricks that every expectant mother can use to achieve a dream delivery free from pain. With a little knowledge and a few simple techniques, I believe every woman can experience the birth of her child in a calm, peaceful, and nearly painless way.

So, join me on this journey of discovery and transformation. Let yourself be inspired, learn from my experiences, and know that you too have the power to experience a birth surrounded by love, tranquility, and serenity.

Together, we can transform the birthing experience and make the dream of a painless delivery a reality.

I am someone who has lived with pain my entire life; it has become a constant companion. Because of this, I am always searching for the "how" and "why" behind these pains.

The body, mind, and emotions are deeply interconnected—something I know from personal experience. Here, I share my insights on this connection.

During my third pregnancy, I discovered that I had Addison-Biermer, a B12 deficiency. In this blog, I share how I dealt with that challenge.

Since the age of 23, I’ve lived with a fibromyalgia diagnosis, and in 2020, I was diagnosed with Hodgkin’s lymphoma. I openly share what these diagnoses have meant for me and how I’ve learned to cope with them.

Through my blog, I offer helpful tips and insights for anyone facing similar health issues. Take a look and let my story of resilience and perseverance inspire you.

Are you considering separation or divorce and want to handle it amicably, especially for the sake of your children?

If you're facing or are in the midst of a contentious divorce, this blog is for you. I share valuable tips and advice on how to avoid a hostile separation, maintain effective communication, and understand the importance of these aspects for your children. Discover how to navigate this challenging process as smoothly as possible.

On my blog about healing from narcissism. At 17, I often heard that my mother was a narcissist, but at that time, I had no idea what it meant. Subsequently, I found myself repeatedly attracting narcissists into my life. My first marriage ended in chaos, and many relationships followed suit. It wasn't until after I turned 45 that things started to become clearer. I began working on myself and now can recognize narcissists from a distance, equipped with the right knowledge to handle them.

There are more narcissists in the world than we realize, and in my blog, I explain why this is the case. I share my personal experiences and insights, teaching you how to deal with narcissists, avoid them, and heal if you've been a victim of someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).

Let my story inspire you and discover how to protect and restore yourself.